FAMILY DISPUTE RESOLUTION - FINDING SOLUTIONS TOGETHER

There's a Better Way Than Fighting

Right now, you and your ex might not agree on much. Maybe you can barely be in the same room. The thought of sorting out kids or money feels impossible when every conversation turns into an argument.

We get it. But here's something we've learned from years of helping families: even people who think they'll never agree usually find a way forward when they have the right help.

That's what family dispute resolution (mediation) is all about - finding solutions without the fight.

Why Mediation Works (Even When You Think It Won't)

It's not about who's right Court is about winning and losing. Mediation is about finding what works. Big difference.

You're in control No judge making decisions about your life. You two figure it out, with our help.

It's actually healing Sounds weird, but many clients tell us mediation helped them move on emotionally, not just legally.

What Actually Happens in the Room

Picture this: A comfortable space (not a courtroom). Coffee or tea. Sometimes you're in the same room as your ex. Sometimes we shuttle between rooms if tensions are high. Whatever makes you comfortable. And a conversation that goes something like:

  • What do you both need?

  • What do the kids need?

  • What are you each worried about?

  • Where might you be able to bend a little?

  • What creative solutions haven't you considered?

Mediations can also be held online instead of in person.

Common Fears About Mediation

"My ex is too angry" Anger often comes from fear or hurt. Good mediators know how to work with that. Separate rooms or online mediations may also be a good choice.

"I'll get steamrolled" We make sure everyone gets heard. If there's a power imbalance, we address it. But you won’t get steamrolled because you are in control. You don’t have to agree to anything if you don’t want to.

"We tried talking - it doesn't work" Talking without structure doesn't work. Mediation provides the framework you need. Good mediators also share their insights about case weaknesses and what a court is likely to do. This can help parties understand what is reasonable.

"It's too late - we're too far apart" We've seen couples who haven't spoken in years find common ground. But if it’s clear from the start that there is no overlap, the mediation can be terminated early.

When Mediation Might Not Be Right

Let's be honest - mediation isn't always appropriate:

  • If there's family violence or economic control (your safety comes first)

  • If someone's not mentally able to participate

  • If there's genuine urgency requiring court orders

  • If one person absolutely refuses to engage

We'll assess this carefully with you. Your wellbeing matters most.

The Certificate Thing

If you can't agree (and sometimes you can't - that's okay), you’ll receive a certificate that says you tried mediation. You need this before court will hear parenting matters.

Need help with a mediation?

Let's have a chat about whether mediation could work for you. First 15 minutes free, no obligation.